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Send a direct message

Start a private one-to-one chat with a colleague in Element, in the browser or on the phone.

For: everyone

A direct message is a private chat between you and one other person. Direct messages are end-to-end encrypted by default: only you and the other person can read them.

Before you start

  • The other person needs an account on your server (or on another Matrix server, see below).
  • It helps to know their name or username, for example marco.

Start a direct message

In the browser / on the computer

  1. Click the + button at the top of the room list and choose Start chat.
  2. Type your colleague's name or username, for example marco.
  3. Select them in the list.
  4. Click Go.
  5. Write your first message and send it.

On the phone (Element X)

  1. Tap the button for a new conversation at the top of the chat list (the pencil icon).
  2. In Start chat, search for your colleague's name or username.
  3. Tap the person.
  4. Write your first message and send it.

Your colleague receives an invitation with your message and can reply right away.

Find your direct messages again

Your direct messages appear in the room list together with your rooms. To see only them, use the People filter at the top of the list.

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Last updated 2026-10-07